Mom of teens shares two rarely acknowledged realities of being the 'default parent'

Mom of teens shares two rarely acknowledged realities of being the 'default parent'

If there's one key phrase that has permeated the parenting discourse in recent years, it's "default parent," the idea that one parent—almost always the mom—takes on the vast majority of the mental and logistical load of raising children. Even in households where a couple tries to split the work evenly, one parent inevitably keeps track of all the things—kids' doctor and dental appointments, who's outgrowing their clothes or shoes, finding a pres…