The red-flag phrases in the milspouse group chat

The red-flag phrases in the milspouse group chat

“I’m fine” is code. If you’ve ever been in a milspouse group chat longer than a week (or friends with milspouses for longer than a week), you already know the truth. No one who says, “I’m fine,” is actually (ever) fine. Everyone knows it’s never a status update or even a reassurance. Most often, it’s a warning. It’s A Cry For Help. A bat signal disguised as lowercase letters and emotional detachment. You know it’s what we say when we’ve hit that…